Spiritual Bypassing Pt. 2

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If you haven’t listened to last week's episode I would suggest going back and starting there.

As a quick recap, last week I had talked about a commonly overlooked variation of spiritual bypassing which takes place entirely within our own psyche, which I referred to as the misinterpretation of surrender;

When we spiritually bypass in this way we typically find ourselves in a situation where we want something, we aren’t seeing results, and we take that as a sign from the universe that we need to just let it go. 

Surrender, however, is what comes after we discover a new desire, and it comes again every time we become aware that we haven’t received it yet, and we repeat this process until we find ourselves with a solution 

Rather than using surrender as a means to tap into deeper belief, we use it as a means to hammer into the belief that we cannot have what we want, and we point the finger directly at the universe. 

We create entire narratives about the universe’s intentions, and the universe is back there like “uh I never said that." 

We put all this weight on the universe, and we use that weight as means to bypass reality, bypass what is actually working for us, while also bypassing what isn’t, and we unknowingly cut ourselves off from receiving what we asked for in the first place.

Do you see how this focuses on the lack of solution, the problem, rather than being open to receiving the solution? 

So typically in these situations we get so frustrated that we convince ourselves that we do not want our desire anymore and we use the universe as the excuse for why we can’t have it.

We say things like “I’m going to completely surrender and if it happens then it was meant for me, if it doesn’t happen or doesn’t come easily then that’s the universe telling me it’s not meant for me.” 

But desire doesn’t cease to exist just because it hasn’t been received in our physical reality yet. 

Surrender doesn’t mean, do nothing; it means allow your desire to exist and let go of needing to know how it will be received until you receive inspiration to take action. 

1st comes a desire, we want something, typically as it’s born out of contrast.

2nd we surrender to how we will receive it, but we trust that the universe will guide us there because the universe is already holding us there. All we need to do in this step is allow ourselves to want what we want and let go of needing to know how we will get it. 

3rd, we allow the doors to open to inspired potential, inspired thought, synchronicities, and action steps that will eventually lead us there. 

Layer surrender on top of desires, then layer action on top of desire and surrender, and finally continue layering desire, surrender, action, desire, surrender, action, until you end up with exactly what you’ve been asking for. 

I hope you found this helpful, if you have any questions feel free to message me on instagram or send me an email and if you’re interested in working with me you can do the same. Thank you so much for tuning in! 

 

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